I am happy that the conversation around ladies taking responsibility for their lives and future is gaining momentum. No lady is supposed to live purposelessly with the mindset of becoming a man’s liability. That is old school. Ladies should dare to dream and set goals for who they are willing to go into marriage with […]
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This is about the youngest group of persons I have taught in a pre-marriage class. My sessions with them were very engaging. I love it when young minds show intentionality towards marital life. My classes are usually introductory and foundation laying about marriage after which they move into the doctrinal aspects of the preparations. Two
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Marriage indeed is a mystery. Otherwise how else do I explain the fact that a couple living in what can best be described as abject poverty is happier and more fulfilled than one living in affluence? The reason we tell people not to make money or economic status the major goal in marriage. This is
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Talking about whether one should marry early or marry late is immaterial. Marry when you think you’re ready. If you think you’re ready before 20, go on but don’t think you’re better off than someone who is over 40 and isn’t ready yet. But you should know this doesn’t apply to women and I know
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When going into marriage, as much as possible give some allowance for eventualities. This applies to life generally but I’m particularly advising intending couples in this piece. It’s very good to have expectations, as high as possible but don’t be rigid and selfish about such expectations. Flexibility and selflessness with your expectations will serve as
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Marriage most times doesn’t go as envisaged because of lack of commitment from one or both partners. This is the reason why marrying someone with same values as yours is very important. Most of the eye-catchy things we tend to hold unto will become uninteresting with time but values will remain. Now, let me explain
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One of the things I would recommend to intending couples in this age and time is to acquire soft skills. The level of violence in homes now is really becoming alarming and most times you try to find out and discover that the cause of such violence is flimsy. Singles must learn the art of
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